Everywhere you look the Phoenix landscape is blooming. The explosion of blossoms may be causing your eyes to water and nose to run. If I were to describe it I would say it is more like a great orgasm flooding upon us.
Have you noticed the flowers blossoms blowing in the wind or carpeting the ground beneath the trees with yellow, pink or purple flowers? How would it be to lie atop a bed of petals and self- pleasure or make love?
I am having mini orgasms of visual delight to witness the cactus arms full of buds ready to burst into bouquets of flowers. Every year it never ceases to amaze me the beauty of spring in full orgasm in the desert.
What about you? Do you take the time to please your senses, to seduce your skin into waves of desire? Do you self-pleasure or masturbate? Do you know the difference?
I think of masturbation as something you do to release stress as quickly as you can so you can get on with your life. Masturbation is producing enough friction so the genitals male or female, will engorge, have enough arousal to peak and drop you on the other side with a few grunts and groans of pleasure. If you can accomplish this feat in 5 minutes or less, all the better. And what a phenomenal waste of sexual energy. As a man you are training yourself to have premature ejaculation 10 strokes and you are done. The other possibility is you are training yourself to have difficulty cuming in a women’s pussy. Most women‘s vaginal muscles cannot compete with the strength of your hand. This may sound contradictory and it is. Every man is different and over time masturbation with little to no variety of technique, just getting off, can leave you less capable as a lover.
Women have shared with me they use their favorite vibrator and get off quickly, same as men, to get on with their day. They are training their body to need the voltage which a man cannot provide with his naked masculinity.
Most individuals have never learned the fine art of sacred sexual love making with another or themselves. Do you know how to touch with the whispering gentleness of a flower petal? It feels wonderful. Buy a rose and let it open. Then take a few petals and softly touch your manhood or soft lips and feel the gentle arousal. The soft touch is only half of the journey. Feeling the passion of your manhood or feminine button engorging requires a primal energy also. Listen to what your body desires. Do not try to mandate a specific routine, follow the energy and let it arouse you to new heights of pleasure. Variety is the spice of life and you can give it to yourself.
Give yourself at least 20 minutes for self- pleasuring. It is going on a journey that is never the same and always leads you into a world of energy levels of altered states of consciousness. In other words, it can blow your mind and your body. This is true for women and men.