Do You Enjoy Oral Sex?
By Ina Mlekush M.A. M.F.C.C.
Sex Counselor A.A.S.E.C.T. Certified
Do you enjoy giving and receiving oral sex? Every time you make love is oral sex a natural part of your loving? Do you have a partner that will allow you to give, some of the time, but does not reciprocate? OR your partner will give to you but will not allow you to give back?
When was the last time you enjoyed a good long session using your mouth kissing, licking, sucking, slurping, nibbling on every square inch of your partners body from their finger tips to their ears down to their sensitive toes and everything in-between?
Did you know the toes are connected to the genitals? You would know if ever you allowed someone to lick and suck on your toes. Now don't go getting normal on me. And say yuck to toes. If you are showered and clean touching any part of the body that does not usually get attention can be very stimulating. Have you felt little electrical bolts of passion jerk your legs around like your genitals were in an energy socket? But it was your toes being sucked? Try it you may like it.
Can you imagine going the rest of your sexual life and never give or receive oral sex? There are generational and religious taboos against oral sex. It does not produce children it is purely for pleasure. There are those who still believe it is dirty to have oral sex. It is not what God intended. I wonder when was the last time those individuals had a good sit down talk with God and asked directly. Never, because religiosity stops you from having a direct relationship with God, Great Spirit.
Being spiritual and being religious are two different things. The most spiritual people may not be religious at all and the most religious people may not have a shred of spirituality in their hearts. Who is to say what is right and wrong when it comes to your intimacy? Are you letting your partner rule the roost or nest as it may be? What about your desires? What about doing and enjoying what is natural rather then do what you have been indoctrinated to believe is right or wrong.
Are you good at oral sex? Have you had a chance to practice it over your lifetime? How many skills have you developed in your life that you did not have to learn first, practice it, make mistakes and learn from your mistakes? Does your partner tell you what they like; harder softer yessss that feels sooo good. Or does your partner lie there with no verbal sounds, no body movement or twitches of pleasure so you know what you are doing is bringing pleasure to them.
Do you enjoy the pleasure of taste, fragrance, and texture from soft to engorged lips or soft to erect cock? When was the last time you spent some time making love in foreplay as a pleasure onto itself without the goal of intercourse being the focus? Have you ever been so turned on by giving pleasure to your partner that you went into spontaneous orgasm yourself?
Oral Sex seems to be a taboo for a large part of our population. How sad especially if one of you loves oral sex and crooning your pleasure and the other is closed down. It is time to have a heart to heart talk about the birds and the bees and licking the honey.
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Ina Mlekush M.A. M.F.C.C., Sexual Solutions. Ina is a marriage/relationship counselor resolving sexual problems, in private practice dealing with issues of erectile dysfunction, early or delayed ejaculation, loss of sex drive, aging, and teaching female ejaculation and non-orgasmic solutions. Mature men and women, you do not need to be without honest intimate touching. Resolve doubt and sexual insecurity, erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation.